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Love Nest $120,000 Rent
Reports say Miriam used about $120,000 to rent Estoril Court, to prepare it as the new love nest, the two also vacationed in Korea to ski during the New Years, this magazine reporter earlier met Ding returning to Hong Kong at the airport, he admitted of going on vacation. Asked if marriage is in June, just smiled slightly.
Miriam to Respond Today
As for the spokesperson of Miriam's record company said, everything will responded by Miriam today during the East Asia Records spring reception, but Miriam is expected to be filming in June.
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The latest critic of the 25 year old reality show star is fashion icon and reality show star Janice Dickinson, who attacked Khloe, saying: "There's no way she would become a fashion icon. Khloé looks like a heifer."
Now the fresh bride is ready for a revenge, and she's did after posing in the latest cover of Life Style wearing a clean blue colored bikini. In her exclusive interview with the magazine, Khloe revealed some of the infos about her diet. "Way before, I was a size 10.
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Crystal McCord is feeling a bit low on the last night of the stage production that she was in, to be honest she was down in the dumps and it had more to do with home sickness more than anything else.
Despite a clear goal all her life to stick to her dreams of playing Broadway on a sudden visit home she finds herself agreeing to taking on board the family farm for a few weeks when her parents has to go out of town for work/second honeymoon. You would think with a bunch of brothers and sisters there would be someone to chip in, but no - all of Crystals siblings are otherwise engaged and although not pleased she reluctantly accept the help of Jeremy Buchanan the next door rancher with the farm for the first few days until she can find her ranch legs.
Jeremy is a new implant to the ranching area of Arkansas but Crystal is only just meeting him because of all the years she has been away. Jeremy has his own baggage and it has literally put is life on hold and he show no signs of going forward in the near future. With a constant air of no hope around him is surprised at the sudden interest he takes in Crystal and the fact that she brings out a side of him that he has not seen in a long time.
Between caring for the ranch and interfering siblings Crystal and Jeremy takes on board each other secrets and challenges and a tight bond forms between the two however when dreams as long held as Crystal has been are within reach, someone has to win and someone must lose, and when none are willing to fight for what could be a sure thing something had to give.
I had heard so much good thing about this authors writing that as soon as I got the chance to try out her new series McCord Sisters, I jumped at it. Ms. Lynxwiler starts off this sweet tale with Crystal in her own element the path to the life that she has always dream about and there the author introduces us to what Crystal life is all about, the friends she has made and the compromises that she has had to make in order to get some privacy.
Once Crystal gets onto the ranch, the books picks up and hers and Jeremys day and eventual evenings are intertwined for a good stretch of the book. Jeremy is not secretive about his own heartbreaking dilemma but over time he has been relying on himself and doesnt accept help easily. When he finds himself becoming attracted to Crystal he is amazed that he is able to after all that he has been through but then Jeremy has never forgotten his Christian value or denied himself from feeling hurt and coming to terms with what he had no control over in his life.
Crystal on the other hand is attracted to Jeremy but she is scared not only by the fact that she is not willing to give up her dreams to do ranching, Crystal had given up on a whole lot of things, God, family, friends and buried herself in a dream that she is just now willing to really look at and see all the other options out there for her Jeremy the main one.
The author does a fantastic job with developing the characters, both the main and the secondary ones. Two things about this books stood out for me, one, this is a religious romance but at no point was it forced down my throat it was there in everything the McCord family and their friends did, it was in there hopes, their dreams and their wants; also the fact that as much as this is a first book in a series Ms. Lynxwiler took the time to flesh out all the sibling as individual and I ended up definately loving some more than the others, but despite this the author never forgot that this was Crystal and Jeremy's story and she made those two quite solid in their mould and I really like them as individuals and as a couple.
There are enough realities of life in this books to make you sit up and thing, this happen to me or I know someone that that happened to and this more than anything else made this book a winner for me. A few side stories are present in this book, and these only help to give a better understanding of the dynamics of the family and hopefully layout some of the foundation for future books.
I am so looking forward to Ms. Lynxwiler next book in the series and am very pleased I got the chance to finally read a book by this exciting author.
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The main benefits of marriage are:
1. Seeking children. Marriage contributes to the building of society, propagation of the human race, and increasing the numbers of Muslims.
2. Pleasing the Prophet (pbuh), by increasing the numbers of his followers.
"Marry the loving and child-bearing, for I shall outnumber the nations by you on the Day of Resurrection." (Ahmad. A similar narration has been recorded by al-Bayhaqi and al-Tabarani, and Hafiz ibn Hajar cited it in "al-Fath" indicating that it is hasan or sahih according to him)
3. Seeking blessings through a righteous child through his Dua and other good deeds on your behalf after your death, or should the child die young then through his intercession.
"When the son of Adam dies, his good deeds come to an end, except from three [sources] : perennial charity (sadaqah jariyah), knowledge from which benefit is obtained, and a pious child who prays for him." [Riyad al-Saliheen]
Other benefits are:
4. Protection from Satan through legitimate channelling of the sex drive, thereby saving oneself and ones spouse from related sins.
5. Peace of mind and companionship, development of love and mercy between the spouses.
6. Development of ties between families.
7. Sharing of tasks in the household, such that the overall burden on each person is less.
8. Inculcation of a sense of responsibility and improvement of ones self through expending effort and making sacrifices for the protection and welfare of ones family, taking care of their needs (physical, material, emotional, spiritual), and bearing inconveniences and each others faults patiently.
Dangers of Marriage
At the same time, there are potential dangers to marriage, which one must watch beware of and try to avoid.
Among them :
1. Failure to earn halal income, such that one turns to increasing his income through haram means, in the effort to spend on ones family.
2. Failure to fulfil the duties of marriage, in particular the rights of the wife, or failure to be patient with its difficulties.
"Every one of you is a guardian, and every one of you is liable to be questioned about those in his care. The man is a guardian with regard to his family, and is liable to be questioned about those in his care. The woman is a guardian with respect to her husband's house, and is liable to be questioned about that in her care. So, every one of you is a guardian, and every one of you is liable to be questioned about those in his care." (Bukhari, Muslim)
3. Being distracted by ones family from religious obligations, such that one spends his days and nights in enjoyment with them without caring to ponder over the Hereafter to work for it.
"O you who believe! Let not your wealth or your children distract you from the remembrance of Allah. And whoever does that, they are the losers." [Quran, 63:9]
Conclusion
"A dinar which you spend in the path of Allah, a dinar which you spend [to free] a slave, a dinar which you give as sadaqah to a needy person, and a dinar which you spend on your family: the most superior of these is the one which you spend on your family."
Our Lord! Grant us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and makes us leaders for the pious. O Allah! Grant blessings and peace to our Messenger Muhammad, and to his Household and Companions.
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4. Believe the other person is competent. I hear this phrase very often: But, I dont want to hurt him. A couple things are at play here. First, she may not have the skill of confronting the other with the truth in a way that brings reconciliation and understanding. She believes truth telling is destructive or entails some sort of drama. Neither is true. The truth is never destructive and can be conveyed in loving ways. (With that said, what we believe to be the truth may indeed be a distorted perception that fits our personal needs.) Or, she may see the other person as a wimp; someone she believes cannot handle rigorous personal confrontation. She doesnt trust that the other person has the internal strength or stamina or skills to be in a relationship of mutual respect and equality. The other person picks up on this mistrust and does what he does (feigns inadequacy and incompetence) to avoid the personal confrontation as well. A dance is acted out. Believe and know in your heart that the other person, somewhere and somehow, beneath the games, has the internal strength and capacity to handle anything. Such trust builds trust in the other person and begins to pervade the relationship. Hey, she thinks I can handle this! Hmmmm, this is mighty good! I CAN engage her and be truly intimate!
5. Be very very careful of keeping secrets. If he knows there is an elephant in the room and doesnt talk about it, the elephant takes up tremendous space in the relationship. It takes energy for him to walk around it. She may not see the elephant but knows he is bending his neck to look around something. She will be curious, mildly disturbed, have feelings but no words to wrap around them, might wonder if something is wrong with her or struggle with trusting her intuition (her intuition KNOWS an elephant is there.) And, when we cant trust the messages that come from within us, we find it very difficult to trust the messages of the other person. Secrets demand tremendous energy and erode trust. The relationship is doomed never to experience wall-banging intimacy. This is why extramarital affairs are so damaging. She is not so much concerned about him having sex with someone else as she is about the betrayal, lack of trust, the secrets and deception that are crazy making and energy draining. Now, please. Im not saying that you sit your partner down and divulge the 23 secrets of your illicit past behaviors. If you have resolved those, i.e. forgiven yourself, understand those behaviors, learned from them and were able to use them to make the internal shifts necessary for your personal development, they do not qualify as an elephant. Hopefully, in the course of growing intimacy in your relationship you may want to share some of those events as you disclose to your partner where you were and where you are now. You do so without emotional charge. However, if a secret takes up room, i.e. still has an emotional charge and holds you back from disclosing more and more of yourself in the growing stages of intimacy, you have a problem that needs to be addressed with your partner.
6. Let YOUR needs be known - loudly. Be a little - no, be a lot - self-centered. (Be self-centered, but not selfish!) Heres a problem I run into almost every day. He is backing away (perhaps attached to work, another person, etc.). She feels the trust and intimacy eroding, is scared and wants to win him back. So she begins an all out effort to work on the marriage. She invites him to do so as well. He may reluctantly agree. She blasts full throttle ahead trying to be nice and meet every need he ever said he had. Shes going to fill his tank with goodies. Doesnt work. Her eyes are riveted on him. He feels or maybe even resentful: Why is she doing this NOW! Shes hopeful, but eventually that turns to resentment. Her underlying motive - if I meet his needs, he will feel good and meet mine - just doesnt work. Its perceived as manipulation, which it is. Of course, he doesnt say anything. After all, how do you get angry with someone who is so nice and caring? Trust disintegrates under a blanket of quiet niceties. Start with your eyes focused on YOU. What do YOU need? Explore your personal need system. Dig beneath the surface. And then say to him: I need x, y and z. I would like to talk to you about them. I would like us to work out a way so my needs are met. Are you open to that? He is empowered to say yes or no. Or, he may say, What about my needs? You respond, I am very interested in hearing what is important to you, certainly. Have you ever been around someone who stated clearly what they needed/wanted? Didnt you respect that person? Because you knew where he stood, and therefore where you stood, didnt that interaction move toward a trusting relationship?
7. State who YOU are - loudly. It is very sad to see those in relationships of emotional investment hold back from letting the other person know who they really are. You build trust in a relationship by entrusting your SELF to the other person. This sounds easy but I find it difficult for most to pull off. Most of us have a difficult time declaring our SELF. For one thing, if youre like most of us, you havent given much thought to what it is that makes YOU truly YOU. Dont you feel like you glide through life on autopilot, focusing on tasks, goals, accomplishments, problems and the external realities? Dont you tend to focus on those things out there or that person out there? Youre concerned about what he is thinking, how he is responding to you, whether he likes you, whether he will be an obstacle and where he will fit in your life? Your conversations may be pleasant but fairly superficial and bluntly, boringly inane. You converse about things/relationships/events out there. You are reluctant to share your thoughts, values, and impressions or take a stand. This doesnt destroy trust. But it doesnt create it either. And, if you do take a stand it may serve the purpose of protecting you or entrenching you as you react against someone. This more often than not creates trust barriers. Take some time to reflect on your standards. What are your standards for a relationship? What standards do you hold for yourself? What do you order your life around? What are the 4 top values in your life? What are some themes that you live by? What are you known for? And then begin letting significant people in your life know. They will respect you. They will know you more deeply. They will thank you for the opportunity to know you. They will see you as a person of character. They will trust you. They can count on you. They know exactly what is behind and within you.
8. Learn to say NO! Sometimes you need to say NO! Often it is crucial to say NO! Saying NO sets boundaries around you that protects you from being hurt or venturing into territory that will be destructive to your heart and soul. You draw a line. You stop tolerating that which drains energy and makes you less than YOU. You refuse to allow the destructive behaviors of others to destroy you. You build a moat around the core of your life. You do this by informing the other person of what they are doing. You request they stop. If they dont stop, you demand they stop. If they dont stop you walk away without a snide remark, eye-roll or comment. To some this seems harsh, but saying NO is RESPECTED. Fear is the basis of mistrust. If you fear that someone will hurt you and believe you have no recourse but to endure that hurt, fear will prevail. How can you trust when you are in fear? Saying NO, protecting yourself, sends a message to the other person that you will not live in fear. This usually triggers a response of respect from the other person. After all, if you can protect yourself and refuse subjugation to that which is destructive, will not the other person come to trust you and see you as a person who just might protect him/her from harm as well?
9. Charge Neutral. When your significant other expresses something powerfully, charge neutral. Most of us are afraid of strong feelings or points of contention in a relationship. I commonly hear people respond by defending themselves (to a perceived attack), explaining themselves, counter-attacking, shutting down, or walking away. Of course, the relationship remains stuck in this quagmire of mistrust and fear. Rather than reacting and having your feelings flowing all over the place or shutting down, practice charging neutral. Communicate calmness, not only in your tone of voice but also in how you carry your body. Dont speak with a charge to your voice. Control your voice! Say what you must say, state the truth and do it directly and calmly. You can do this, once you master your fears. It will dramatically change the flow of the relationship. You will be able to point out something big, without making a big deal out of it. You will be in control of you. This not only feels great, but your partner trusts that you wont fly or fall apart. You will experience your personal power. This makes you very attractive. Dont people really trust someone who knows their personal power and how to use it for the welfare of themselves and others? Your partner will love the fact that she can trust you consistently to operate from your quiet center, remain engaged, not back down and speak the truth with conviction and calmness.
10. Dig into the dirt. Relationships of emotional investment, by their nature, bring trials, tribulations, fears, chaos, turmoil, change, stretching and growth. They become the grist from which your life is shaped and formed. Be fearless when faced with turmoil, upset, crisis, questions, and fears. When the time is right, seek them out. Move toward the frightening unknown. Dig into the dirt of your relationship and uncover the treasures. Do you really TRUST that this can happen? The purpose of your relationship is not to make you happy. Do you realize this? Happiness may be an outcome, but your other is given to you to move you to where you really want to be. Obstacles, trials and moments of pain are given as lessons on which you intentionally write the script of your life individually and together. Embrace the difficult. Trust that in this embracing you will find more of your true self. Trust that you are given the resources and capacity to face what you and your significant other are to face. Once you are able to believe and trust these ultimate purposes, trusting your significant other will be that much more easy.
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Mazen Abdul-Jawad, a 32-year old father of four, apparently spoke about his sex life, and his desire to pleasure females, on Bold Red Line. The BBC reports that the man gave the television crew a tour of his bedroom, showing off a number of sex toys for the cameras as he bragged about picking up women using the Bluetooth function on his phone. Abdul-Jawad also presented aphrodisiacs, and admitted wanting to have sex in an airplane. But now Abdul-Jawad's lawyers claim that the Lebanese Broadcasting Corporation (LBC) heavily edited his comments, and that he did not actually say anything obscene. He plans to appeal to conviction, saying that the show's producers actually provided the toys and asked him to speak about them. The court called for the unedited tape during the trial, but allegedly the producer and cameraman have both fled the country with it.
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Ill explain what is going on here. One, the fruitcup researchers want desperately to cast doubt, however threadbare, on the burgeoning scientific and cultural acceptance of the important role played by biological determinism. They are emotionally invested in inflating and slanting the data to conform to their worldview. Scientists, particularly those in the soft girly sciences, are not immune from emotional bias. This is why I believe the time has come to shove it back in their faces and institute affirmative action and quotas in universities and social science departments to force them to hire academics with a realist bent. Diversity will be their strength, by force of law.
Two, while the reversed rotating speed dating study doesnt do anything to overturn the extensive research showing that women are the more sexually selective sex, it does highlight an important concept of game that men should be aware of: namely, the principle of perceived higher value. Men who remain seated at speed dating events while the women bounce from man to man are essentially boosting their alpha male status. As any man whos lived a day knows, when a girl approaches you either directly or indirectly (via a proximity indicator of interest) she will perceive you to have higher status than if she were the one being approached. The facts of your actual status are irrelevant. Perception is reality, so if certain body movements and positionings cause a girl to perceive you have higher status than her, she will be more open to a romantic tryst with you.
The researchers misjudged the rotating speed dating womens universally shared desire for higher status males as lowered selectivity. The women werent being less selective; they were being just as selective as they always are, except now there were more higher status (i.e. seated) males for them to choose from. If anything, this study demonstrates that more men learning game will not result in women adopting stronger selection filters for men with only the tightest game. I have said before that more men running game is analogous to more women with beautiful faces both will increase the total number of gina tingles and boners, respectively, at least until enough millennia have passed for new evolved preferences to emerge. Game, like beauty, exerts a power over the opposite sex too primal to be denied.
This principle of perceived higher value doesnt work in the reverse: A womans value is almost entirely a function of her looks and the fact that she has a vagina, so there is little a woman can do, outside of makeup and good lighting, to alter a mans perception of her beauty. Truly desperate ugly girls could slip a vision impairing drug into his drink, maybe a funhouse mirror drug that causes him to think she looks like Katy Perry.
Besides teaching men that they should refuse to get off their seat at speed dating events, this study helps confirm some other valuable body language power moves Ive written about, like the forearm grab and the importance of keeping your back to the bar. Id further suggest learning the finger curl come hither. Curl your finger and motion for her to come to you; the power dynamic will be all in your favor. As Zeets likes to say, in an affected haughty French accent: Zay come to ME!
Women will often test men for their commitment to their repertoire of alpha power moves. How many times have you talked to a girl across a small distance in a loud room and she motioned for you to come closer to her? Beta bait. Alphas never bite; they respond No, you come here. Subtle, not so subtle? Douchey? Who cares, the shit works to light up a womans loins.
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Loyd worked on a nothing little farm, and at a sawmill driving mules, shouting for the left, and for the right. Gerushia worked on the farm, too, and raised the children.
It was a hard-scrapple life to hear the stories now; Loyd liked to say that the Depression passed right on by without their knowing it because they were poor already. They did appreciate that FDR brought electricity to the Ozark hills, but fancies were few.
And then diphtheria struck the hills and the hollers, and Gerushia started showing the symptoms the running nose, the bluish tint to her skin, the cough that sounded like a seal barking. Church ladies gathered to bathe her forehead and bring food to the frightened father and his two young children, but for all the damp towels and all the covered dishes and all the prayers, Gerushia didnt make it. They buried her in the red clay of Pettigrew, Ark.
The children the boy still a toddler went to live with family for a while while the grieving Loyd kept his head down and kept working.
Among the church ladies whod come to mop Gerushias brow was a woman named Marvie, short for nothing. Just Marvie. She was the last unmarried daughter in the Karr household, a big woman with a bemused smile who was quickly approaching the quarter century mark long past her due date for marriage in the Ozarks. That didnt seem to bother her much. She loved her nieces and nephews, loved helping her family out on their little farm, and when Loyd came calling after the appropriate mourning period, of course she was more than a little nonplussed. Shed liked Gerushia. Theyd sang in the little church choir together, and she was sure sorry for those poor children.
Loyd was not the romantic type. His courtship manners were ragged; not long after he started showing up for dinner, he asked Marvie to marry him. He said he couldnt offer much and he had those two children to look after, but if she was willing, well, hed make her a good husband.
They married and Marvie gathered those two lonely children to her lap. A third child a daughter, my mother followed not long after that. The family eventually moved away to northern Missouri, and then to southwest Missouri, but every year they drove back to Pettigrew, and they put flowers on Gerushias grave.
In my grandmothers box of photos rested the photo posted here, and a small yellowed box that contained an empty syringe needle. That was used to innoculate my mother the next time diphtheria came through that corner of Arkansas. Loyd and Marvie took no chances.
As you can see from the photo, Gerushia is small, dark and pretty. My grandmother was big, dark and though by general standards you couldnt call her pretty, I thought she was beautiful. I loved and feared and respected her, and it seemed rude to ask her questions about the woman I came to think of as my shadow grandmother, and so I didnt. I knew she lived. I knew she died. And that was it though I wanted to know more. Out of loyalty to my grandmother, I never asked though I believe she would have told me and been fine with the telling. There was some part of me that felt sad that Grandpa had chosen her second, and I didnt want her to feel bad, too. For my grandfathers part, he never talked abotu Gerushia, though he used to joke that hed married the biggest Karr on the lot, to which Marvie would smile and flap her hand at him, shooing him away like a fly.
Death did them part, and from all indications, though they bickered like crows, it was a good marriage.
And then a few days ago I get an email from a woman named Kim, a second cousin and an artist in California, who takes vintage photos like the one above and works magic with them.
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“I’m going home from a party,” was Svetas reply.
“My parents aren’t home, you wanna come over right now?”
“I’ll be right now, babe!,” Sveta said with a gentle voice.
New fantasies were conjured up into Alina’s mind. She dreamt about this young innocent girl for a long time.
She went into her house to wait for her lovely little angel.
Soon Sveta came to the door, which opened before she could even reach for the doorbell. Innocent cute girls held each other’s stare for a few moments; They couldn’t hold it in any longer. Alina kissed Sveta and her fingers worked furiously to remove her shirt, and skirt. Then she had directed Sveta towards the bed, she pushed little innocent girl onto it softly and sweet teen girls sunk down into it.
Alina’s clothes were off, because it hot slut had removed her bra and panties beforehand. Now clothes had been stripped, and two innocent little angels were lying on the bed naked. Sveta lifted her right leg and extended it into the air as Alina dropped her hand and placed it between her beautiful legs. She found Sveta’s innocent shaved pussy and pushed finger between her wet pussy lips. It felt incredible.
She rubbed Sveta’s clit and slipped her fingers in and out slowly. Sveta screamed from pleasure. At this time Alina started licking her tight pussy and and slowly pushing her finger into Sveta’s innocent ass.
Sveta’s legs shuddered and spasmed as the orgasm tore through her young body. “I’m coming.
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